Friends Cut

[moonshayde]

Despite the icon, no I am not doing a friends cut because I am freaked out by you all LOL

I have a lot of people on my flist that haven't posted in like 2-3 years. I assume they left LJ, so I am going to go ahead and do some trimming.

I'm mainly aiming this at abandoned journals and people that post maybe once a year. Plus there are some people that I never talk to and never talk to me, so I figure we've drifted or just never clicked.

This really isn't aimed at anyone new since I don't know you yet, or people I talk to on a regular basis.

There is always room for misunderstanding though, so if I cut you and you didn't want to get cut, just let me know and I'll add you back. Or just post here if you want me to keep you. Even post here if you are looking to be cut. Maybe I bore you ;)

No hard feelings or anything. Like I said, just let me know. :)

Comments

[trystan830.livejournal.com]

a lot of abandoned journals on my LJ. Plus, some people I just don't converse with at all.
exactly. if someone hasn't updated, or i don't talk to them any more, i'll take them off.

and then there's another type of people i'll take off: the post, so i reply. they post again, i reply... i reply, i reply to all their posts. but they never comment back. and they never comment in my either. why should it be one-sided like that?

Most people aren't going to respond anyway
this is very true....

[moonshayde.livejournal.com]

and then there's another type of people i'll take off: the post, so i reply. they post again, i reply... i reply, i reply to all their posts. but they never comment back. and they never comment in my either. why should it be one-sided like that?

Exactly. I don't talk about it a lot, but this is how I feel. I'm not saying none of us are never guilty. There is no way I can respond or comment on everything out there. The same goes for everyone else. But if you are the only one talking and the person never bothers to talk back, that's not a conversation. And that is what I am here for.

Just an FYI...don't take it perosnally if I am not as responsive over the summer in your LJ or other LJs. It's only because I am a spoilerphobe so I won't be reading as many posts in people's LJs LOL

[trystan830.livejournal.com]

But if you are the only one talking and the person never bothers to talk back, that's not a conversation.
i totally agree.... i'm here for the conversation, the back and forth and such. i love it when somone replies, i comment back in such a way that invites another comment (maybe i've asked a question), and that's the end of it. *sigh*

don't take it perosnally if I am not as responsive over the summer in your LJ or other LJs. It's only because I am a spoilerphobe so I won't be reading as many posts in people's LJs LOL
hehe understand completely. but all my spoilers are behind a cut, so you don't have to worry. :D